Quite frankly, they are 11.1%. Told me he was unhappy, didn’t see a future and didn’t love me anymore. It's your ex. The love letter is so true – thanjs for writing it up plainly. Then he broke up in May. It's been over 8 months now and we are still apart. If you did that, they might come back to you because they are trying to ease the guilt they feel. There are also exes who come back in order to make things right between the two of you as well as to alleviate any hard feelings. Then came back in early April when I went NC. I know if I stick to NC he will come back … But unless you've committed some of the typical post-breakup mistakes, getting back with an ex is not dependent on you—but rather on your ex and the months and years of time. Alden says May 10, 2020 . During no contact, he realised he still loved me and 3 months later, he came back. You don’t want to get back together with your ex before 4-6 months have passed anyway. My ex broke up with me first time due to codependence. I worked on myself. My ex came back. Guilt: If you handled the breakup poorly by trying to talk your ex into getting back together, you likely tried to make them feel guilty about how they hurt you by breaking up with you.. All the advice on this forum will help you move on. Then he broke up with me again in March this year. Few days in relationship with him and ex come back to me full of ‘love’ and asked me back. You are probably in a lot of pain right now, so you likely won’t believe what I’m about to say. The one who told you how much you meant to … Yeah, that one, the guy who ripped your heart out and then stomped on it -- and then was adamant about how he wanted to "stay friends." I knew after so much failing it won’t work with him, also I … For example, perhaps the two of you ended on bad terms or you were completely blindsided by the breakup, and your ex may feel compelled to come back and apologize and/or set the record straight once and for all. Months later I met new guy. However, 6 months later, we broke up again yesterday. Getting back with an ex after years is possible. 2. 100%… And if I’m being honest here, from my experience I’d rather be dumped then being the dumper and I’ll tell you why. But there are some … Your ex might have left you because they felt like it, and knew that when they decided to come back in their own time, you would be willing to take them again. Came back in June. I have changed my entire outlook on relationships and humans and how we work after my ex came back over 2 months ago and I ended up saying no after thinking Id always say yes. Twice. 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